Letter on pain

I have to say that resigning from my job was way more easier than coping with the challenges I am currently facing.

I did not realize how deep the impact would be.

Which means with taking a break I could discover that I am really low in energy and that I was giving from my reserves for a very long time. I am more than open to receiving and at the same time could find out how difficult it is for me to ask for help or for assistance.

Whenever I am facing stormy times my digestion is the first to be overwhelmed and which brings my already very sensitive nerves even more under stress.

The more I have time to recover the more I could find out that I do not want to go back to this any more.

This is the most challenging part at the moment. I am full of ideas and images how my business could look like and at the same time I am facing reality of there should be a way of abundance coming to me to practically pay the bills.

I have got the feeling this is like walking on eggshells and being at the edge all the time.

My inner feminine is asking me to slow down and connect with nature, whereas my outer masculine which is in my mind and also in reality, my husband, is asking me to look for a job again and pressure is getting more and more.

I have titled the post with pain because for me this is more about taking care of myself, although it seems to be unbearably stormy at the moment. It is about finding my footsteps and walking my path. I know that this is really something I have been carrying with me for a very long time.

I have never thought that walking my path could be so painful. For me it is because I always wanted to be liked and I can sense it with every part of myself when I am doing something another person does not agree with.

I am pretty sure that this voyage will be deeply changing and important for me.

The wonderful thing with challenging times is that they are not lasting for EVER!

Much love out of pain,


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Letter on opportunity

New opportunities


I did it.

I resigned from my job.

I cannot believe that it took so many posts until I came to this point.

This was and still is a major step for me. I did not realize that I would shiver so much whilst walking my path. I knew that freedom was more important for me than everything else, but still could not do it.

Resigning stirred up a lot of emotions deep inside me.

I felt a relief that I finally made the decision.

On the other hand emotions like “I am not good enough” kept jumping into my mind all the time.

For a while those ghosts who constantly told me that I was a “failure” accompanied me and I thought that they were right.

This is what happens to me quite often that I make a really big decision and quite after a short while an inner dialogue starts, listing all my “failures” and I spent time listening BECAUSE I always did.

It took me so much time to set myself free, only to fall into my inner limiting thinking again.

Whenever I fall into this mood again I try to see myself as a hero, wrap myself into shining light and anchor this image in my body.

It is so easy that I forget how much effort and courage it took.

I really tend to fall into de-pression and put so much pressure on myself.

So I finally know that it will take some time for me to heal from this work-experience.

At the same time I am so proud that I took the opportunity to leave, to be open for new adventures to come.

For sure!

Much ME-Love


 flower on adventure growth

 Like the wonderful flower from our neighbor, blossoming in our garden!


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Letter on spark

Well, it has been over a month that I did not write a single post. I have been very busy in the background.

I am currently working on my new blog which consumes a lot of my energy, in a positive way. I have underestimated the time and effort a little bit, needless to say that I have some other projects running too.

The other thing is that I was also busy writing some chapters for my second book. The first one is now ready to go to publishers. I did not imagine that it will take ages to get there. I am a perfectionist. Everything has to be perfect. I am really grateful that I had the support from various people to follow my dream.

When I look back to my previous posts I could realize that I have promised more than I had shared in my posts. I had promised to write about sexuality, about deep feminine wisdom and probably I have covered those topics partly, but not truly. I felt scared and the time was not ripe to do so.


This is why I am working on my new blog to start with what I had promised. Not only with a new name, a new design also with a complete new content.

New link coming soon!

It really took me the last couple of months to declutter my life.

Areas I had to dig deeper:

Self-love, career, dreams and my desires and passion


I have only covered the surface. I could say it was a way of expressing my emotions, my fears in those recurrent topics, mostly relating to my career.


How did I struggle with my masculine energy wanting to be expressed in my writing and how did I struggle with masculine energy in my job and not having the courage to walk away.


It all happens for a reason.


I had to find my inner balance of feminine and masculine energy to be able to follow my dreams.


So what was it what really shifted my life and set of a spark?


I am not in my twenties any longer, even said good-bye to my thirties. Hello forties and with this everything shifted. I got the strong feeling that my life is too short to do anything I do not like any longer.

That is freaking scary and at the same time I feel that I am unstoppable.


I have never followed anything with such persistence as I do right now with my writing. I do have this big dream to be a successful published author and it feels as if I am facing obstacles one after another and I keep going and going.


So this is my spark to follow my dreams as I have got this vision inside where I want to be in my future. It’s not a rose garden yet, but I have already planted the seeds and I am walking my path.




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Letter on beauty

As always love to take the opportunity to share my insights with you, thanks to Andrea for choosing the topic.

What is it about beauty that speaks to me?

I would like to focus on the little moments, the ones that are sometimes taken for granted.

Such as the beauty that lies in a smile from another person. The beauty you can see in people moving whilst they are dancing or walking only. The beauty when you watch the sun just seconds before rising or setting. The beauty of a gentle touch or the gaze by somebody you love. The beauty of raindrops attached to a spiderweb.


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The wonderful smell and beauty of flowers. I personally am very strongly attracted by roses.


Or the beauty when walking to the office early in the morning and being surprised by a wonderful creature in the midst of the campus.


What else do I relate with beauty?

I would say the beauty of being naked. The beauty of “non-perfect” bodies. Artists, photographer capturing people how they really are. That’s beauty, when eyes are telling stories and you do not need to hear a single word.


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This brings me to my next topic, the words.

I love words and the beauty you can create with words, especially in poems, using words to express feelings, describing beauty with words and imaginary pictures and letting your fantasy flow.

I am almost done, only one last comment.

I think the most important thing for me is seeing the beauty from the point of my heart which makes me smile from within.

Thank you Andrea, for this wonderful topic. I could go on and on writing….

Love and beauty from within,



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January 12, 2014

Hi, I like your blog and the wonderful eye-catching pictures.

blissful Thoughts

This week I found metal objects as I walked.

To find some meaning I intentionally confused metal with mettle.

I found courage; fortitude.

“Tender-handed stroke the nettle, and it stings you for your pains; grasp it like a (wo)man of mettle, and it soft as silk remains.” Aaron Hill
“The great sea has sent me adrift
It moves me
As the weed in a great river
Earth and the great weather move me have carried me away
And move my inward parts with joy.” Inuit Shaman’s Song
How will I use this gift in the coming days, weeks, year?

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Letter on boundaries



This is a great way to start the new year with writing a blog post on boundaries.

I have been thinking a lot about setting boundaries and being assertive. Lately reading a wonderful book from Doreen Virtue about “Assertiveness for Earth Angels”. This is a great book and explains the necessity of setting boundaries to be able to expand your wings and do what you are supposed to do.

It is so easy to get caught up with different things or putting other people’s needs first and speaking for myself quite hard to set boundaries without feeling guilty. I often have the urge to explain why and could find out that this is not often necessary and makes myself weakening again.

So, boundaries are more than important to grow and to focus on your purpose and your life. It’s not egoistic, it is a way of clearing the space to be more open for the things that are important. It is also a way to let go the need to be responsible for other people’s life’s.

I am not sure how other people set their boundaries but with me I often realize my boundaries when somebody is overstepping them and I get a certain feeling of discomfort or an even stronger feeling of anger which asks me to look more into sensing what’s going on.

I really want to pick up what Andrea has touched with abuse. It is quite hard to explain how easily someone’s boundaries can be overstepped emotionally and therefore so difficult to sense what is going on and even harder to name it and find the right words for it.

Over the years I could learn that nobody has the power or right to intrude into my feelings by dominating the person’s will on mine. It has got to do with having the courage to stand up for yourself, at the same time planting your self-worth and therefore taking action for yourself.

Standing up for yourself can be scary and uncomfortable, it can make you feeling guilty and at the same time this is what shows the real you, the person who you are with your needs and feelings only you can adjust and specify.

During the last year I could find myself being confronted with the same “issues” every now and then and my usual way of dealing with it would have been re-acting. I could really learn that re-acting disconnected me from myself and left me with the feeling that I am not being heard. After a while I could realize when I allow myself to feel I get less stressed and stay with my feeling so therefore I am able to express myself in an authentic way. The effect was twice rewarding. I could feel myself being heard the first time ever in my life and second positive effect was that I allowed myself to set boundaries and felt way more connected and stronger than before.

The other things with boundaries is that it is an ongoing process happening on a variety of different occasions such as at home, at work and even with the writing of my book I am currently experiencing that I need to set boundaries with the editor I am currently working. I need to set my boundaries to stay true to myself.

Or with writing this blog. I am more realizing that I want to create something completely different and that I was trying to do or write something and now I feel that a huge shift was going on so that I want to go with the flow and follow my intuition.

Love this topic, hope you as well.




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Letter on intention

Nelson Mandela

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It took me a while to get a word for the next year. What first popped into my mind was structure and focus. I kept searching deeper and then I could sense it.

The word I am intending to have for the next year is “visibility”.

In the online course from Brene Brown, which was so amazing and shaped me a lot, apart from a lot of interesting information I could hear about that the basic needs of a person are to be heard, seen and valued.

Well, I will focus on to be seen.

To quote with Nelson Mandela:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.  It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.  We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?  Actually, who are you not to be?  You are a child of God.  Your playing small does not serve the world.  There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.  We are all meant to shine, as children do.  We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.  It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone.  And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

I know this quote for years already and it has been a reminder all the time.

So, what does being visible mean? Being visible means showing up as the truly you. It means being vulnerable and brave at the same time. For me it is also connected to ask for support if necessary, learning from setbacks and at the same time to celebrate success.

Being visible for me means presenting myself with the Superwoman Power and on the other hand allowing myself to make mistakes in public. This is big… really big for me!

Being visible means showing where my boundaries are. Until here and not any further.

Being visible means having an opinion which some might probably not like. It also means letting go of other people’s expectations.

And finally being visible means to show up to connect with others!

I have never had the feeling of being visible in the past. The past couple of months helped me a lot in getting a feeling of how it could sense to be visible in micro-moments.

Well I do hope that someone out in the universe is reading my blog and  wants to dance in light with me.

Light and Visibility,



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